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separation is double sided.why firstly we see only one-pain? - Benn - 09-11-2009

usually the man realize who has next to him, how much love and how precious is... after he lose that person.
Separation -how it is right to say that : "so it was to be", or "so I wanted to be". It is a difficult decision to take, usual painful.
I believe that everything what happens in life is for the better , and think that "so it was to be"...What about you?


Re: separation is double sided.why firstly we see only one-pain? - Laurentine - 09-12-2009

Because man firstly sees what is wrong, then what is good. and separation means pain, loss, solitude, loneliness, lack of meaning of life. Here's why we see the ugly things firstly... :fi


Re: separation is double sided.why firstly we see only one-pain? - Terry - 09-16-2009

Laurentine Wrote:Because man firstly sees what is wrong, then what is good. and separation means pain, loss, solitude, loneliness, lack of meaning of life. Here's why we see the ugly things firstly... :fi

I agree with you Laurentine... But after we pass those moments, we become stronger and believe that everything will be o.k, Cause somewhere is waiting and our halves; then we start to smile again... Smile


Re: separation is double sided.why firstly we see only one-pain? - Big_Becka - 11-02-2009

Benn Wrote:I believe that everything what happens in life is for the better , and think that "so it was to be"...What about you?
I beleive this also Smile I have often seen it happen!

Of course, it is natural to be in pain at first. We are (mostly) monogomous creatures. That is why separation is so difficult (I think).

I think that when things go wrong, you can become upset and call yourself a failure, or you can find the strength to turn your misfortune into a new opportunity. So you have some power over this situation :-) you can continue to be in pain, or you can go out and find the love of your life :-P


Re: separation is double sided.why firstly we see only one-pain? - aimhigh - 11-25-2009

SEPARATION always painful, for both sides. But I think separation is an avenue for a new change. Where a door closes, a window open for a reunion with a soulmate.


Re: separation is double sided.why firstly we see only one-pain? - Laurentine - 12-08-2009

As for me,separation means freedom.But in a case you love and it happens suddenly,it very sad and make you great pain.Why pain first,because you lose important part of your life. Just imagine,you were together,you knew that somebody love you, carry about you and you love somebody and carry about him, and,suddenly,everything has stopped,just emptiness remained and pain. AdviceConfusedtand up and go further and everything will be good!)))