09-18-2008, 10:15 AM
Can you really listen to other people? You may be very confident about this. But unless you listen between words and among lines of phrases you really don’t know how to listen.
Consider this example. If your girlfriend is angry, probably she will say something, which she didn’t mean in the absolute sense. If you can not listen between lines of her sentences, you may be very much deceived by yourself.
By picking up the absolute sense of her words, you create a situation, which could lead to the separation. And the main reason is not what she said. The main reason is that you still didn’t learn to listen.
Consider this example. If your girlfriend is angry, probably she will say something, which she didn’t mean in the absolute sense. If you can not listen between lines of her sentences, you may be very much deceived by yourself.
By picking up the absolute sense of her words, you create a situation, which could lead to the separation. And the main reason is not what she said. The main reason is that you still didn’t learn to listen.