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The older you get, the more difficult is to love
#1
I noticed something. As a person gets older it is more difficult for him to fall in love.
Even if it seems that everything is great and perfect. But the relations may end prompty. Why?
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#2
It's all about disappointment. If you were fulled by the guys you were dating with, you will watch the following guy as a very "dangerous" candidate for being your partner.
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#3
unfortunately that is true. I remember the times when I was 16-20, I could fall in love with any girl easily, now it's different, I began to follow all her pros and cons.
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#4
Love is a very complex things. Many teenagers believe they are in love, but this is not love this is "attachment". When one gets older he begins to love for real.
“Love is like a booger. You keep picking at it until you get it, then wonder what to do with it.”
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#5
Terry is right.
The teenage love is totally different from the older and more mature sentiments.
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#6
Thank you Karl.
However we should know that a teenage love is not less strong than an adult love. Moreover, these are teengers who sometimes make stupid things in the name of love. That's why adults must give an adequate education to them in this context.
“Love is like a booger. You keep picking at it until you get it, then wonder what to do with it.”
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#7
The teenage love is a pure one. There is no age when love reaches this sentiment of love is so free of ordniary passion
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#8
Also, when you are young, you may fall in love simply because of interest. Lack of experience can make a person fall easily in love, even with the least expected person, which, I should say, is pleasant. It really brings joy when you fall in love unexpectedly and not at once. Love at first sight doesn't last long.
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#9
what? what do you mean: love at first sigth doesn't last long. when i first met my fiance, he picked me up hitchhiking. it definitely was love at first sight.
i know what you mean though. there's love at first sight and attraction (without the chemie).
but i always get a little affendet when people say, love at first sight is no real love, it's just attraction. that's not true.
by the way: the age difference between us is 22 years.
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#10
margerita Wrote:what? what do you mean: love at first sigth doesn't last long. when i first met my fiance, he picked me up hitchhiking. it definitely was love at first sight.
i know what you mean though. there's love at first sight and attraction (without the chemie).
but i always get a little affendet when people say, love at first sight is no real love, it's just attraction. that's not true.
by the way: the age difference between us is 22 years.
waw Marg, now that's a BIG difference Confuseduper . How old are you 20, 30? Pardon my curiosity. It's just that I also had a lover who was much elder than me. I wasn't happy with him for a long time, it was just a kind of exchange of experience. I don't regret it Smile
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#11
Well I wouldn’t agree with the quote “the older you get, the more difficult it becomes to love”. Every age has its own points and senses. All you have to do is point out yours. For old men, finding a young mistress (f.e. aged 19) is the peak of pride. However if they apply effort, they can turn their old wife into a young lady. This is the problem of imagination.
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#12
If you see your old partner/wife/husband isn’t changing, then you may try changing your own tastes. For example, you may not like unepilated legs. In this case, get used with the thought you are old, and old ladies epilate legs much rarer then the young ones.
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#13
Nobody and nothing is perfect – bear it in mind. You always want a perfect partner, yet, have you seen yourself in the mirror? How “perfect” are you? Maybe you are the one who needs changes, and later your partner will understand it’s high time for him/her as well to change.
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#14
:-)
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#15
Hello

Men typically get more attractive as they age to a certain point. There is a peak when you start getting wrinkly and gray. Then the ladies start calling you "old, crusty man."

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#16
Oh, don't tell me about disappointment,you always have to love like first time! The older you get,the more difficult is to love-is the fact.When you are young you can fall in love easily,because you are ready to love , you want to love,your heart is young and your mind is flexible.The older you are the other complicated different things fill your life and you lose ability to open your heart, mind,and to let feelings absorb you.But everything depends only on you)))
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#17
Hmm...interesting affirmation..It is because people became more and more serious and realistic, they just live their lives and do not pay attention at different kinds of details, they can not be as much romantic as they was when they were young, can not be so candid to pay so much attention to the person which they love.
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#18
It's so true! Young men are beasts - they think it is very clever to sleep around and hurt people, but what they achieve is to make women bitter and cautious. Romance is a way for men to get you into bed - once you understand this, romance is dead.

When I was a little girl, I dreamed that one day a guy would buy me roses. Now if a guy bought me roses, I would give him hell Big Grin Why? Because now I am wise enough to know that guys only buy flowers when they have done something BAD :lol:
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#19
I think so
as long as the feeling of love will be no more harder than ever



















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