07-24-2008, 09:52 AM
YOUR PEACE DEPENDS ON HOW YOU SOLVE CONFLICTS
On the way you solve conflicts, depends if you create an inner conflict in yourself or you create an inner peace. An outside conflict affects your inner world in a dramatic way. Why? Because the conflict resonances in your inner world. People with an emotional approach to conflicts may burn out too easily and get sick. Imagine for example the conflict at school between two children. You are the teacher at that school. How you will approach the conflict, and with what attitude? If you can keep the inner balance while solving the conflict, then you instill peace in school environment. And not only that! You recharge your own “batteries” with peace. If your approach is pure emotional one, than you will mess up the issue, will stir up aggression in the school, then you will end up with a broken heart, or you will burn out because of the self inflicted worries. If the situation will continue this way for a long time, you will be tormented by anxiety.
We leave in the world where conflicts arise so easily. Since many people don’t know how even to approach conflicts, their inner energy burns out, and they lose it in an instant. This is one reason why so many people are getting tied today: they burn out at the work place, at home, mainly because they really are lost when a conflict situation arises. So, if you are among those people, who react emotionally to conflict situations, you need to think seriously about what to do next, don’t you?
On the way you solve conflicts, depends if you create an inner conflict in yourself or you create an inner peace. An outside conflict affects your inner world in a dramatic way. Why? Because the conflict resonances in your inner world. People with an emotional approach to conflicts may burn out too easily and get sick. Imagine for example the conflict at school between two children. You are the teacher at that school. How you will approach the conflict, and with what attitude? If you can keep the inner balance while solving the conflict, then you instill peace in school environment. And not only that! You recharge your own “batteries” with peace. If your approach is pure emotional one, than you will mess up the issue, will stir up aggression in the school, then you will end up with a broken heart, or you will burn out because of the self inflicted worries. If the situation will continue this way for a long time, you will be tormented by anxiety.
We leave in the world where conflicts arise so easily. Since many people don’t know how even to approach conflicts, their inner energy burns out, and they lose it in an instant. This is one reason why so many people are getting tied today: they burn out at the work place, at home, mainly because they really are lost when a conflict situation arises. So, if you are among those people, who react emotionally to conflict situations, you need to think seriously about what to do next, don’t you?