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Mistakes committed in a relationship - Andrewz - 11-28-2008
Basing on my experience, I would like to outpoint the main mistakes a guy usually makes within a relationship:
You shouldn't pretend you're a saint guy. You probably noticed that really beautiful women are not interested in "good guys". Certainly you did. Your look is not as significant as your inside power.
Don't try to convince her to love you
I have a news for you - YOU WILL NEVER MAKE A WOMAN BELIEVE YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE, UNLESS SHE FEELS THIS HERSELF. There is no place for logic here, just never do it. Men are ruled by their mind, while women by their feelings.
Don't try to buy her attention by expensive gifts etc.
It happened to you at least once when you took a girl/woman to various expensive restaurants, gave her expensive gifts, but, in the end, she left you. This refers to serious relations. I'm not talking about girls who squeeze men's pockets.
Don't allow your passion to be discovered too early
A beautiful woman receives a lot of attention from guys. So, be more original. Try to show your misinterest in her. She must first fall for you, and after that you are free to act.
Don't be too insistent
Many make this mistake. If a girl doesn't want to receive much attention from your part, don't push things. be patient and do it step by step, otherwise this attention will be spent in vain.
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - Benn - 02-07-2009
I remember when I was young, I used to easily fall in love. Well, it wasn't quite love, but something alike. And, my fails rose from the fact that I had permanently been trying to convince a girl to love me... It was so naive and stupid. This is very important guys, never convince her even to date with you, everything should be natural.
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - Faw_Peter - 06-26-2009
Never annoy girls and don't call up them too often, for you'll become boring. At the beginning try to keep distance - your girlfriend should get accustomed to your relationship and to you personally. Keep this in mind, my friend
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - Terry - 06-26-2009
Jealousy is the most common mistake people commit.
If one partner is a jealous and possessive person, this can make things very difficult. Assuming there is no cause for the behaviour, such as infidelity, the jealous person really needs to get help to deal with the inner insecurity and lack of self-esteem that are causing the problem.
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - M.Helen - 07-04-2009
For example women often say : prove that you love me. Ok you may say it once, twice, thrice but not always
, men become bored and annoyed, or, what are you thinking about - also a stupid question.
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - tricker - 07-22-2009
mistakes are not .... are misunderstanding between two people who love each other! people are not perfect they still tend to do mistakes! so don't look for mistakes ..... Search your feelings
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - hellodear - 08-12-2009
One of the mistakes that guys make is their inactivity. They stop to work over relations. They become boring .And it stopes relations. :ugeek:
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - Steven - 08-20-2009
hellodear Wrote:One of the mistakes that guys make is their inactivity. They stop to work over relations. They become boring .And it stopes relations. :ugeek:
This is a mistake committed by all, not only by men. Therefore should not expect to fall from ceiling pleasant moments and feelings. Of course if you love that person.
Re: Mistakes committed in a relationship - Lorry - 12-16-2009
In my point of view the most important and serious mistake that occurs in a relationship is misunderstanding and egoism, selfishness. They wants many but offers nothing back. Thats why many couples divorce and separate from each other. In a couple it is very important three factors: understanding, respect and trust.