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WHEN YOU DEMAND IT, IT DISAPPEARS - euigorwithyou - 12-23-2008
The moment when you require to be respected, the respect disappears. Why? It is because the respect can not be attained by begging for it. When you demand respect, you impose a certain mind frame on a person. And this never brings results!
The frame of mind is the inner work of a person. It must come from inside, not from outside.
Re: WHEN YOU DEMAND IT, IT DISAPPEARS - Faw_Peter - 02-07-2009
you are right, I remembered a mate of mine. When I first met him he said "I want respect". The first thing that run through my brain was the question: "Hmm... do I have to? What for?". So respect comes with time. Just show respect and you'll receive it.
Re: WHEN YOU DEMAND IT, IT DISAPPEARS - Terry - 02-13-2009
Naturally, everybody is ought to respect each other as long as there is no reason for not respecting. Not everybody understands this, so this is where this phrase is good to be applied.
Re: WHEN YOU DEMAND IT, IT DISAPPEARS - Nathan - 06-27-2009
There is a secret how to make people respect you. First, respect yourself, have dignity, then be friendly and open. All is simple, just be yourself.
