I believe, strength of institution of marriage need special attention, In some cases people deceive each other; more women were found opperessed. Once marriage takes place then decency requires that it should be honored. Righteousness and faith are to be the benchmark alongwith compatibility in marriages.
If parents teach children to keep upper hand for spiritual well being with their own example, then children can stand against the ills of time. Divine education includes the teachings about proper dressing of body to proper conduct. Best time to teach it is at very young age. If both parents have to work then very special care should be given to children’s spiritual uplift.
Striving for self-control and righteousness is the major subject of holy Quran, according to Ahmadiyya caliph. Allah says:
And for those who strive in Our path – We will surely guide them in Our ways. And verily Allah is with those who do good. [ Quran, chapter 29 Al- Ankabut , verse-70]
Also, for keeping peace in the family, it's important to teach kindness by being kind. We need to be firmer and kinder. Children need firm rule and guidance, stated clearly and with respect. It isn't necessary to impose the rules.
peace in family is important. Honestly I didin't have much peace in my family when I was a little girl. Now in my own family (with my husband) I find peace neither. What can I do?
suggestions:
1= make list of acts of both, which cause unrest.
2= avoid too much argumentation and anger, confrontation do not work.
3= kind discussions.
4= if he is drawing peace from elsewhere, find reasons; heart of women is more capacious.
4= listen / read to friday sermons in w.alislam.org : w.mta.tv for wider range of practicable spiritual understandings.
5= specific prayers : following are two prayers for family from holy Quran:
For parents:
My Lord, have mercy on them as they nourished me in (my) childhood. [part of verse25: chapter 17]
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For spouses and children:
Our Lord, grant us of our spouses and children the delight of (our) eyes, and make us a model for the righteous. [part of verse 75: chapter 25] --- Quran section w.alislam.org
Bright side is that you add new dimension to a matter. But that can make friction too.
Those (ie, God loving people) who spend in prosperity and adversity (for goodness), and those who suppress anger and pardon men; and Allah loves those who do good. (3:135) .
Call unto the way of your Lord [that is the way of justice and goodness] with wisdom and goodly exhortation, and argue with them in a way that is best. (Ch.16: v.126)
and one example in health ( just little off topic):
[PDF] Homoeopathy - Like cures like
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One should never argue with an Ignatia patient. The patient will ...... Generally, young boys and girls continue to argue even if ...
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If emotinal thing are not seems to be in control: these nature-based medicine under qulified homeopathic doctor's advice are very useful.
Peace! Homeopathic system of medicine was started in Germany in 1800's by a allopath doctor.
HOMEOPATHY -Medicine For Human Nature
Of all the alternative therapies available, homeopathy has the most appeal. This system of medicine is derived from both natural medicine and orthodox ...
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Hazrat Khalifatul Massih IV (through his lectures on homeopathy on MTA, ... Of all the branches of medicine, homeopathy is most closely related to the laws ...
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Unfortunately this kind of medicine is very poorly spreaded, and people don't use it to remove griefs. I think scientists require more arguments/
If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is "God is crying." And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is "Probably because of something you did."
Things are being unfolded:
Proof for homeopathy (someone** was trying to prove it do not work but instead proof came out!)=
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Besides, there are many many people (and animals, as it work for them too)in world who are getting cure by this system. it is cheap, effective and has no side effects of the type which other systems have.
Expert is needed.
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** = " Professor Karen Nieber, head of the institute for pharmacy at Leipzig University, set about proving that homeopathy does not work ..................................."
a lot of information here:
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If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is "God is crying." And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is "Probably because of something you did."
Thanks
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