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The following should be interesting for women. I noticed some possible reasons why men usually leave women:
1. The woman became uninteresting. She is not interesting to him in both dialogue and relationship. A man will always look for a woman with whom it's a pleasure to talk. Certainly those who want a relation only for one night won't be assessing her IQ level  But, if it comes to lasting relationship, he would like to date to reasonably clever women.
2.Incompatibility of two tempers
You (ladies) seem to be great, but, details small bring quarrels. You can't come to an agreement, nobody gives away. A man likes to be the leader. So the only solution here is to break up.
3. She stopped following her beauty. Yes, your look is an important key to your relationship. Your appearance is in your hands. Make fitness, keep your body young. Be beautiful
4. You (ladies) use men as a wallet. Men like to court ladies, they take girls to restaurants, cafes, cinemas, shops with pleasure. If a man feels he receives only sex from this and not love, sooner or later he will leave her.
5. She openly shows her desire to get married
It's a real issue for some couples. She is ready to get pregnant only for getting married. Ladies! If a man wants to get married, he will certainly tell you this. but, don't push!
6. She earns more than him
As I mentioned before, the man likes to be the leader. If she takes the financial situation under control, his feeling of the leader will disappear. It's a reason for breakup
7. Cheating. It's obvious that no true man will want to date further to a girl/woman who cheated on him
Learn this and avoid mistakes
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I can't see any problem if she earns more than he does...I would love to have such a woman, yet, not for a long term... probably, 'cause, true, I'd lost my dignity feeling. In the financial context, a relation should be 50:50 in share, so that none of the partners depend on each other.
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Agree with you Benn. Unfortunately the most beautiful girls on this planet get married because of money. This leaves ordinary guys almost no chances...
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Terry Wrote:Agree with you Benn. Unfortunately the most beautiful girls on this planet get married because of money. This leaves ordinary guys almost no chances... hey, don't be desperate. I should tell you that such girls are not happy truly with their husbands. They simply imitate happiness. My girlfriend is very beautiful, I'm not exaggerating, and, I'm not an oligarch ;-)
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I left my ex-girlfriend because her head was permanently aching. OK, I admit 1 day, 2 days one week, but not 1 month. That's impossible. I think she was simulating the headache, while I really hate that.
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Men leave their girls because of their laziness. If there is no dinner on the table put by the wife, normally he gets mad. Bad cooking is a reason for leaving her as well ;-) A normal man likes to eat solidly.
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The women talk too much, and the majority of them may be not silly but behave in such a way. Also they require too much attention, that sometimes annoys men. Many of the women are capricious. These are several of the reasons why men leave women.
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Men usually leave women because someone younger, more beautiful, more interesting comes along.
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petergiovanni Wrote:Men usually leave women because someone younger, more beautiful, more interesting comes along.
Agreeeeeeeeeee...........Sorry girls but If a man love's you it doesn't mean that you have to relax and do nothing. Vice-versa ..you must do more that before....to keep it
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petergiovanni Wrote:Men usually leave women because someone younger, more beautiful, more interesting comes along.
They leave without thinking that soon, new women will become like those, not interesting,less beautiful and elderly! And, in fact, these are only reasons to justify in front of women. But, men, have you ever thought why a woman become as it? May be are reasons and circumstances, as eg the lack of attention, of compliments, of time from you, men's. It's wrong to say that a man leave a woman because of her, he leaves cause he's not face the requirements.
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Terry Wrote:Agree with you Benn. Unfortunately the most beautiful girls on this planet get married because of money. This leaves ordinary guys almost no chances...
No, it is not so.. Money is not a single reason why women are found by men. There are intellect, kindness, strength, charisma, fascination... :-)
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hellodear Wrote:No, it is not so.. Money is not a single reason why women are found by men. There are intellect, kindness, strength, charisma, fascination... :-)
Is not the single but is the main........
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Terry Wrote:hellodear Wrote:No, it is not so.. Money is not a single reason why women are found by men. There are intellect, kindness, strength, charisma, fascination... :-)
Is not the single but is the main........
Not much I like to admit that men are right ..but it's true ! many women leave them to be taken by the wave of money, jewelry and a life without worries. Love is not too important in the face of these temptations.
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I broke up with my gf because of temper issues. She was very beautiful (not less than a model), traditional, faithful and it all went fine between us for a while until she gradually became overly possessive of me and I couldn't continue further. I am not used to being questioned for too many things.
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Peach Wrote:Terry Wrote:hellodear Wrote:No, it is not so.. Money is not a single reason why women are found by men. There are intellect, kindness, strength, charisma, fascination... :-)
Is not the single but is the main........
Not much I like to admit that men are right ..but it's true ! many women leave them to be taken by the wave of money, jewelry and a life without worries. Love is not too important in the face of these temptations.
My ex-boyfriend was a good-assured person, and very boring one) But the boyfriend i have now is a humbly -earning guy but a very intresting from the point of view on his personality. I like him :-P
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Not necessarily someone be in the middle. Sometimes simply disappear the love,the pleasure to be with that person, to share joys and sadness. And not see any reason to be with him...
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hellodear Wrote:My ex-boyfriend was a good-assured person, and very boring one) But the boyfriend i have now is a humbly -earning guy but a very intresting from the point of view on his personality. I like him :-P
I do not understood, you left him or he left you?
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Faw_Peter Wrote:hellodear Wrote:My ex-boyfriend was a good-assured person, and very boring one) But the boyfriend i have now is a humbly -earning guy but a very intresting from the point of view on his personality. I like him :-P
I do not understood, you left him or he left you?
lol, Peter, that was a good one 
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Women seem less interested in finding what is wrong with a relationship and less interested in repairing problems. Women give up too easily and do not like to make comprimise.
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55° N - 13° E Wrote:Women seem less interested in finding what is wrong with a relationship and less interested in repairing problems. Women give up too easily and do not like to make comprimise.
I will try to argue ... if women really love then she do not give up easily on an affair. Let's remind who speak more a man or a woman .. Of course the woman...I can say if I do not like something, or if I see something's wrong I try to talk to my half, to understand what is happening. In such times many women hear "everything is ok", but hardly seems to be. Most of men find it difficult to talk, hey would rather give to understand that something is going wrong. And another thing: women do not turn and leave without saying a word...
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Laurentine Wrote:55° N - 13° E Wrote:Women seem less interested in finding what is wrong with a relationship and less interested in repairing problems. Women give up too easily and do not like to make comprimise.
I will try to argue ... if women really love then she do not give up easily on an affair. Let's remind who speak more a man or a woman .. Of course the woman...I can say if I do not like something, or if I see something's wrong I try to talk to my half, to understand what is happening. In such times many women hear "everything is ok", but hardly seems to be. Most of men find it difficult to talk, hey would rather give to understand that something is going wrong. And another thing: women do not turn and leave without saying a word...
I have seen men and women of different types and I don't think it's right to generalise this based on gender. It all depends on individuals.
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Laurentine Wrote:55° N - 13° E Wrote:Women seem less interested in finding what is wrong with a relationship and less interested in repairing problems. Women give up too easily and do not like to make comprimise. I will try to argue ... if women really love then she do not give up easily on an affair. Let's remind who speak more a man or a woman .. Of course the woman...I can say if I do not like something, or if I see something's wrong I try to talk to my half, to understand what is happening. In such times many women hear "everything is ok", but hardly seems to be. Most of men find it difficult to talk, hey would rather give to understand that something is going wrong. And another thing: women do not turn and leave without saying a word... I made an error. Sorry, Laurentine.
What I said about women "less interested in finding what is wrong with a relationship and less interested in repairing problems - give up too easily and do not like to make comprimise ..." applies to Swedish women, NOT women in general.
FreeThinker Wrote:I have seen men and women of different types and I don't think it's right to generalise this based on gender. It all depends on individuals. I agee with you FreeThinker but not completely.
First of all the title of this thread is "Reasons why men leave women". Such a subject is asking for generalisations. Secondly, there are certain national characteristics based upon politics, culture, etc. So even though I made an error in my first response, I must generalise anyway about Swedish women. Of course you are right about "It all depends on individuals" but there is still a general characteristic that should be talked about. That is the subject - That is the thread.
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Quote: So even though I made an error in my first response, I must generalise anyway about Swedish women. Of course you are right about "It all depends on individuals" but there is still a general characteristic that should be talked about. That is the subject - That is the thread.
that's right... are you married to a Swedish woman?
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Laurentine Wrote:Quote: So even though I made an error in my first response, I must generalise anyway about Swedish women. Of course you are right about "It all depends on individuals" but there is still a general characteristic that should be talked about. That is the subject - That is the thread.
that's right... are you married to a Swedish woman? Absolutely not. My wife is from Slovakia.
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Quote:Absolutely not. My wife is from Slovakia.
perfect people does not exist, and all of us have something good and something bad, I'm sure that in your country are good, smart, beautiful and interesting women as personalities.
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