I wouldn't say they are many. It's one out of 50 maybe. This is a big problem. Women must avoid becoming fat, because losing the weight is much more difficult. I understand the men who don't like such women.
now that is..., no I don't even have words for expressing what I feel when I look at this picture. Can anybody tell me how can one happen to have such a body?
Some women can’t lose weight because of a disease or poor medical conditions, a problem that can affect men as well. You shouldn’t be so steely with your opinions. :?
The problem of chubby girls is common for the youth. Even if a boy likes chubby girls, he won't go out with her because he's afraid to be laughed by his friends.
If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is "God is crying." And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is "Probably because of something you did."
Benn Wrote:The problem of chubby girls is common for the youth. Even if a boy likes chubby girls, he won't go out with her because he's afraid to be laughed by his friends.
well yeah benn, you are right. It's they youth's stubbornness... but it does passes with time. As the boy gets older he understands that this is his feelings that really matter, and not what the surrounding people say.
"I believe in making the world safe for our children, but not our children's children, because I don't think children should be having sex."
Benn Wrote:The problem of chubby girls is common for the youth. Even if a boy likes chubby girls, he won't go out with her because he's afraid to be laughed by his friends.
Benn,
you guys don't know what you're missing. Plump girls are more fun. Since they actually eat, they aren't perpetually on the verge of madness/ And they cook better. And ... well... I'm not going to say anything that will get me banished... but you know what I mean... :oops: :oops:
Aeneas Wrote:you guys don't know what you're missing. Plump girls are more fun. Since they actually eat, they aren't perpetually on the verge of madness/ And they cook better. And ... well... I'm not going to say anything that will get me banished... but you know what I mean... :oops: :oops:
I can't really see any connection between being fatter and madness, is that related somehow? Plus, I know that it's difficult to "make things" in bed with chubby girls, because you get tired fast.
Aenas, I love you for saying this!!! I shall go and have some pudding! :mrgreen:
Going on a diet sends you a bit mad, becasue your blood sugar levels become low. Especially if you go on a low-carb diet like Atkins: a lot of girls get crazy, depressed and feel tired/dizzy on Atkins And a lot of girls are on a permanent diet, even if they don't admit it ;-) Also, womens' bodies naturally store fat in preparation for pregnancy. So a very skinny girl is probably in starvation mode (although some girls are naturally thinner than others).
Peter, larger girls are also stronger than skinny girls - so you can ask them to do some of the work uper
I have dated girls/women from a varied spectrum of ages, cultures, hair and skin color, etc.
When I was young (16 through 24) I was too naive (stupid?) to recognize the signs of mental illness.
So I dated a bunch of insane women. As a rule, they were very skinny and tortured themselves (and me) with their mood swings and anger. A strange type of anger that I only saw in the type of women known as "tits on a stick." As I got older, I started to pursue women who were also interesting for other reasons: they could hike, kayak, hunt, swim and sail. They were also far more fun ..... errr... you know what I mean. And they weren't so damn fragile and brittle. And didn't complain so damn much about everything. Now mind you, there are women who are naturally slim and they don't work at it. I'm sure they're not as insane as the ones fighting the bulge daily. But all in all, it's a good idea to keep the weight to a reasonable level for the sake of one's health (diabetes, blood pressure, etc).
becka, I personally know some girls that are eating a lot a lot, but, they are skinny. I don't know why, but they were swearing about the fact they eat a lot and don't gain weight.
how can you explain that?
If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is "God is crying." And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is "Probably because of something you did."
Benn. talk to them after they hit 35 and have a couple of kids.... hock:
Like I said, big girls are hot and can do a lot more than skinny ones. And they're not as moody. And if you ever break your ankle while hiking some remote mountain, they can sling you on their shoulder and carry you to the hospital Just kidding, I mean they can be a lot more helpful as a partner. This is just my experience. Perhaps it's different for others.
Benn Wrote:becka, I personally know some girls that are eating a lot a lot, but, they are skinny. I don't know why, but they were swearing about the fact they eat a lot and don't gain weight.
how can you explain that?
I know some girls like this also, and I have some theories
1) A woman needs around 2000kcal to maintain her weight. Most women's diets restrict you to around 1200kcal. So a woman who is already skinny can happily eat much more than her dieting friends ;-)
2) Most 'naturally skinny' girls think they eat more than they do. I have noticed that they will eat "a huge meal" (which is really a normal portion) and then they will leave some because they are "so full." I think they have smaller stomachs :quoi They can then snack on other food - even junk food - but will stay skinny becasue the total calories they eat is still low. By contrast, a larger girl will try to "fill up" on bread or vegetables: so even if she never eats chocolate, she can still get fat :nonnon This is why gastric band surgery is effective.
3) If a girl has always been 'naturally skinny' it is often because her parents raised her to eat healthily. One of my best friends was always very skinny, because her mother was always on a diet. So her idea of a normal hearty meal is actually a very low calorie meal. By contrast, most of the larger girls I know were raised by parents who taught them it is normal to eat bread or pudding with a meal, or to snack on biscuits.
4) A 'naturally skinny' person finds it easier to exercise, because they carry so much less weight. A larger person may not be able to raise their heartbeat for a long time, because they have difficulty breathing or their joints hurt. Even if they do not consciously exercise, a skinny person will tend to walk around their house or office and do things more.
These are just some general observations - they are not true for everybody
Sometimes a woman is almost impotent in fighting against her weight. This is all about genes. Now, scientists claim they can try changing genes and introduce artificial genes. This will help removing almost any health problem
"I believe in making the world safe for our children, but not our children's children, because I don't think children should be having sex."