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We all know that a self-complaining person is a proud person. He is blind to the display of love in his life. Why? It is because love “doesn’t yell” from the bottom of its” lungs, “to announce” its presence. But for a proud person only “noisy” love is love. It is because he doesn’t know the secret and the essence of love. Have you noticed how a loving mother approaches the door of the room, in which her little baby sleeps? She hardly touches the door and she enters the room, as if she is weightless, she hardly breathes. But her love fills every little corner of the child’s room.
Any self-complaining person is totally incapable to perceive the love. That’s why he is always unsatisfied and unhappy. He doesn’t see the love and so, doesn’t make room for it in his heart. But there is an advice:” Look intently, - the love is here, - it entered your room on its “toes”. Can you feel it? If not, than it might be that you reject the presence of love.
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Living the life without love is the same as not living the life. Honestly, I know exactly what you are talking about and fully agree with you. When you love the life seems to be more beautiful. I'm not talking about love against your partner, I'm talking about friends/relatives etc.
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What you give, the same you receive. He who nerev experienced love, will never behave kindly to people and neither will obtain a similar behaviour towards him. You can start by simply showing smiles on the left and on the right, and love will come inside your soul
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I have been hurt and cheated on twice before the current relationship I am in; my current partner quite frequently declares that she loves me greatly but I find that I always seek to find the worst in her and her declarations. I guess I fear being hurt all over again, it was extremely unpleasant and it caused many problems for me. What's worse is we are now in a position where we must be together in a "long distance" relationship for the next three months and I am finding it very difficult to trust her. I do love her dearly but I guess as a matter of defense I choose to partially reject her love so as to avoid being hurt...if that makes any sense. I really don't know how to get out of this problem. I suppose it's the whole vulnerability factor, I don't like it but I will have to learn to live with it.
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I think love is true, simply you just have to find the right person whom you will trust. He or she should be a soul mate. Having the same ideas and beliefs is also very important. People say that partners should have opposite characters to get on with each other, but I don't think so. They should have sth in common.
